WHICH FIRE ARE YOU FEEDING?

WHICH FIRE ARE YOU FEEDING? Two fires burn within
you—one builds your future, while the other burns your time.
The one you feed more will grow, rise and eventually define your
life. Every life carries two fires: one grows through discipline,
learning, health, curiosity, purpose, right karma, meaningful relationships
and focused action; the other grows through distraction,
procrastination, ego, comfort, comparison, unnecessary recognition
and wasted time. Both can grow. Both respond to fuel. And
every day, you are feeding one of them more.
In WHICH FIRE ARE YOU FEEDING?, Dr. Abhishek Gilara uses the simple yet powerful story
of a mother changing the cooking heat of healthy and unhealthy food to reveal a deeper truth
about human behaviour: change the heat, and over time, you may change the taste. Through five
deeply reflective chapters, he explores how our time, attention, energy, environment, habits,
family, mentors and daily choices determine which fire becomes stronger. Are you feeding discipline
or distraction? Progress or applause? Learning or ego? Health or comfort? Purpose or procrastination?
Silent work or constant recognition? And most importantly—who controls the
knob now? Parents may guide us, mentors may correct us, and family may protect us, but eventually,
the responsibility becomes ours. Success, growth and even failure often reveal one simple
truth: whatever receives the most consistent heat eventually becomes the biggest fire. This is not
merely a book about productivity; it is a book about consciously deciding what deserves more of
your life. Because time never disappears—it always feeds something. Feed the fire that builds
your future.