THEY FIGHT BECAUSE THEY BELONG

Is sibling love about respect, care, sacrifice, and availability? Yes. But that’s not the full story.** In this reflective and deeply human book, Dr. Abhishek Gilara explores one of the most misunderstood relationships in life: the bond between siblings. We often believe love must look polite and composed. But sibling relationships challenge that belief. They are messy, loud, emotional and yet, enduring. Through personal reflection, psychology, and family-systems insight, this book reveals why: • siblings fight where love is secure, • emotional regression is a sign of safety, • honesty matters more than politeness, • and conflict does not weaken bonds it often strengthens them. This is not a book about perfect families. It is a book about real ones. A reminder that sibling love is not defined by how calmly people behave but by how deeply they belong to each other, even after arguments, misunderstandings, and childish fights. Because strangers stay polite. Friends stay careful. But siblings fight and stay. And that may be the truest form of love there is.