THE RIGHT PAIN
Why Those Who Learn to Bear Pain Eventually
Defeat It Most people spend their lives trying to
avoid pain. But what if that is the very reason they
suffer more? What if there are actually two kinds of
pain? One pain weakens you. The other pain
strengthens you. One pain comes from avoiding
responsibility, discipline, exercise, learning, and
growth. The other pain comes from embracing them.
In this deeply personal and thought-provoking book,
Dr. Abhishek Gilara explores a life-changing truth:
The people who grow the most are not those who avoid pain. They are those
who learn to bear the right pain. Inspired by the remarkable story of his ninety-
two-year-old aunt who rebuilt her strength after a devastating hip injury, this
book combines personal experiences, scientific research, fitness lessons, spiritual
wisdom, and practical life philosophy to reveal why resilience is one of the
most valuable skills a human being can develop. Inside this book, you will discover:
• The difference between good pain and bad pain • Why soreness after exercise
is often a sign of progress • How resilience is built through repeated challenges
• Why comfort addiction is weakening modern society • The science
behind mental toughness and post-traumatic growth • How to prepare for life’s
inevitable hardships before they arrive • Why spiritual discipline strengthens
emotional endurance • The hidden connection between pain, growth, longevity,
and success This is not a book about suffering. It is a book about strength. Because
life will bring pain anyway. The question is: Will you be ready when it
arrives? If you learn to bear the right pain today, you may never have to suffer
the wrong pain tomorrow.
































