BEFORE YOU SAY I LOVE YOU ASK WHAT IT MEANS
We all say "I love you," but do we know what it means? This
book isn't about romance. It's about reality. Dr. Abhishek Gilara,
author of over 150 books on life, leadership, wellness, and spiritual
clarity, dives deep into one of the most overused yet misunderstood
phrases in human relationships: I love you. Through
real-life insights, spiritual truths, and raw emotional clarity, he
unpacks what love looks like in action, not in words.
In these seven eye-opening chapters, you'll discover: Why we mourn not the person, but what
they gave us. How most love is conditional and self-serving. Why self-love isn't what we think
it is. The difference between loving God and using Him. How nature is our best teacher of unconditional
love. Why love, at its core, is karma, not emotion. What it truly means to say "I love
you," and how to live it before you speak it.
Whether you're a parent, partner, friend, leader, or seeker, this book will change how you understand,
express, and embody love.
Before you say "I love you" again, ask what it means. And then, live it.

































