THE RIGHT KIND OF KINDNESS

You can’t heal those who love their pain  but you can heal your urge to save them.”** We live in a world that glorifies helping others. But what if help, when given without awareness, causes more harm than good? In “The Right Kind of Kindness: Help Only Those Who Want to Heal,” Abhishek Gilara  author, entrepreneur, and modern spiritual thinker  explores the untold truth behind compassion: that not everyone is ready to receive it. Drawing from psychology, neuroscience, and timeless spiritual wisdom, Abhishek unveils why genuine helpers often end up drained, disappointed, or disrespected  and how to transform emotional giving into conscious service. Through real-life reflections, scientific insights, and soul-level truths, this book reveals: • Why helping the unready creates karmic imbalance. • The difference between saving and serving. • How to identify who truly wants help  and who just wants your energy. • Why even God waits for prayer before giving grace. • How to give from abundance, not guilt  and set energetic boundaries that protect peace. This book doesn’t ask you to stop being kind. It teaches you how to be the right kind of kind. Because real compassion isn’t about helping everyone  it’s about helping the ones who are ready to rise. And when you learn to serve consciously, you stop burning your light for those who prefer darkness  and start illuminating the ones who are searching for dawn.