I BECAME MY BEST COMPANY

I Became My Best Company: How I Learned to Talk to Myself Why do we talk to others? To satisfy our curiosity, to learn something new, to feel connected. But what if the most fascinating person you could ever talk to… was you?  In this honest and powerful book, Abhishek Gilara shares his journey from chasing old friendships to discovering the unmatched joy of self-conversation. Once surrounded by people running on “old software,” he realized that growth often means incompatibility—and the only way forward was to either connect with upgraded minds or go inward. Through stories, reflections, and lessons from his previous works (Zero Traffic, The Trap of Wrong Learning, Happiness: The Final Destination), Abhishek reveals: • Why old connections feel like outdated apps. • How to upgrade your “firmware” through daily learning and discipline. • Why talking to yourself can become the most productive and fulfilling relationship of your life. • How writing, reflection, and curiosity can turn solitude into inspiration. This is not a book about isolation—it is about liberation. It is about learning to enjoy your own company so deeply that you never feel incomplete, even when you are alone.  Because when you fall in love with yourself, you carry the best company with you—always.